Why do they feel like this?!?!

Why in the world does my family (my brother and mom) feel like I need to be controlled? In fact my "boyfriend" got in an arguement with my brother and said that I feel like they are controlling me and my brother says "Well she needs that!" I was SO pissed off I just wanted to get outta there. My brother and I aren't really talking right now because he's being a total jerk about it. He gave me his opinion and when I didn't agree with it he got all mad and told me that everything I have been doing is wrong and that I am being all self righteous. UGH! Whatever! So Chris and I aren't going to see each other or talk on the phone until my divorce is final. Just because I'm SO tired of hearing from everyone that they don't agree with this whole thing. Once I'm divorced they won't have anything to complain about. I just want to move out that's the point I'm at right now but I know I can't. Well I just wanted to complain and I'm taking the computer to the computer guy tonight so I will finally get my comp all set up and then I can set up my video blog and ipod and stuff. Can't wait. I can have those keep my mind off of not talking to Chris. *sniff sniff* I hope all is well with my friends!